Friday, 12 June 2015
5:16 am
Hashtags: #MrandMrsHeng / #VeryHengWedding - Instagram
Part 1) My Fairytale Proposal
Till date I can still clearly remember the magical day on the 200315 at Hong Kong Disneyland. I remember planning for the trip, preparing for the itinerary and my fiancé keep asking me if we will be going to Disneyland. I really never though of anything. I mean, why are you asking stupid questions? You know I love love love Disneyland and every girly and sissy stuff, literally a walking snow-white just that I am the dark skin version! Haha. God knows there is something up on your sleeves.
I chose to go Disneyland on the first day there, we reached there at around 3pm and the crowd was ok as it was a weekday. The weather there is very cooling, but the fiancé is sweating! Lol. At first I really never thought of anything and we were just snapping pictures away.
Went for a few rides and the fiancé asked me........... to marry him. Joking!! Haha. Not so fast la, its super romantic ok! So he asked me to follow him to the castle area cos he wanna snap more pictures of the castle, I am like what?! So yeah, I followed him and he start talking to this photographer and videographer there. He claims that he wanna take a more professional and nicer picture because it's our first time there together. I mean yeah sure, at this point of time I really do felt something amiss. I pretty much know it's gonna happen!! But wow, at Disneyland? It's like a dream come true. I am just hoping it's real, I can't guarantee though, cos my guy isn't a romantic guy, he is super practical. For example, last year he just tell me, "Baby, your birthday present choose a gift budget 2K let me know soon". Yah, don't expect surprises from him, he just bluntly tell you lo. Hahaha.
After they talked, the photographer starts talking to me and asked me to pose for the camera and the videographer keep videoing us and stuff. Its like a big hoohaa!! Cos people start looking at us and yes I know it's happening. Haha. Just that how is my guy gonna do it? Here goes nothing, he looked at me and told me,"Baby, do you know today is our 666th day together?" And the speech goes on which I can't hear everything cos fuck I cry already, I am too emotional. He knows that, whenever we watched any movie I can cry like anytime, even if its a comedy.
Imagine it happening to me, the love of my life telling me a romantic speech and trying to proposed. I can't help it, after his speech which ended something like,"I hope that you are the one to spend the rest of my life with together." He kneel down on his kneels and pop the question."So Baby will you marry me?" Yes Baby, I do! Thank you for trying and you make me so happy. Nothing can describe how I feel, the memories are so vivid. I could remember everything clearly till now. And yes, I am officially engaged!!!
I won't be posting a lot of the proposal pictures cos I gonna save it till the wedding day to showcase at the montage.
2 facts about my beautiful engagement ring:
1) It's a trilogy diamond ring, which means I love you or you are my past, present and future (The fiancé knows I already have plenty of solitaire so he decide to get trilogy)
2) It's a 1 Carat ring (Initially I am just eyeing on a cheapo $1700 0.6 carat ring, I even went to recce with my girlfriend but the fiancé when all out. God knows when he will buy another 1 Carat for me -_-")
Well, it's was a very magical day for me. Thank you Baby!!
My next post on Part 2 will be on choosing of bridesmaid and bridal shop. Can't wait to share every details!! Its was a amazing journey!
Monday, 12 January 2015
1:08 pm
Hashtags: #MrandMrsHeng / #VeryHengWedding - Instagram
So yes, we are planning to get married in less than 2 years time and yes he haven't even propose, I kinda think it's just one of those proposal whereby the guy just ask you, "Dear, you wanna BTO ma?" And you goes like ok lo. And then, the wedding plan just comes along. Our unit have been booked and agreement of least have been paid.
Everything went really smoothly, was really overwhelmed. Deciding to booked the unit is the problem, I loved staying at a lower level because I hate having to wait for the fucking lift and I tends to forget to bring my wallet and phone whenever I have reach the ground level. The fact that my current place is Level 12. So effing troublesome! And both the boyfriend and me always have the urge to shit at the wrong time every time!!! When u are waiting for the lift and the fucking lift is at Level 15! -_-"
So we decided to choose Level 7-747 but very suay, kena chosen in less than a week time, so perhaps 6? Fuck no. Chosen again. 5? Just my luck but nope,take!! Shag. So I am left with 2,3,4. Yeap, and we chosen Level 4 in the end. 4-747. I love it, it's perfect. Doesn't means Number 4 is unlucky or whatsoever. I have friends who lives at Level 4 and they are all apparently doing well. Hate people that comment, "Aiyo, why choose 4 sia, so low level. No value?" Eh, go fuck spider la.
Ok next! The first thing we decided to do is to get a pair of wedding bands. We recce a lot of places like Goldheart, Love and Co, Lee Hwa and SK etc. Boyfriend loves design that has no design. Simply to say rings that is completely plain. -_-" It's super easy to find those rings for him. But I am looking for something more classy, like whole ring filled with diamonds. Muahahaha. Super pretty! But I went to so many shop those sales associate were kind enough to tell me that if I were to wear it casually it won't be very appropriate. Both of us found our perfect rings in the end. And we bought it from Sk Jewerly, service is perfect and within our budget of $1500 .
Expected
Reality
Boyfriend's on the left. Mine on the right.
Happy happy one thing settled. Striking off the wedding list. Next, bridal services and photoshoot. We went to out first bridal show together at Dobhy Ghaut and was so shock. We were mopped by all the people pressuring us to us packages with them and refuses to let us off. Boyfriend being the nice guy always entertain them lo, but I shrug them off. I am always the bad one. -_-" Always!
We just want to be alone and slowly look through the booth. But bridal show was too scary to attend! Hahaha. Managed to get a lot of brochures and le boyfriend and me went home to discuss. Haven't really decided on one yet, but I love how the boyfriend would give suggestions and being so pro-active. People always say when a couple is planning for a wedding, they tends to have conflicts as their interests will crash with one another. Beg to differ.
It's great to pinned down all my wedding progression and preparations here. 10 years down the road when I re-visit my blog memories will be still as fresh!
A lot have ask me about the date of our big day. But nope, date have not been decided yet as we need to consult a feng shui master. But it's definitely within this 2 years time. Preferably on the 5/11/16. Yes, its my birthday and it falls on a saturday!! But having such superstitious parents, looking for feng shui master is a MUST! Haha.
So choosing a Bridesmaid is also a hassel, being a bridesmaid isn’t just fun and games and matching dresses. It’s a big responsibility, and it usually comes with a substantial commitment of time and money. Also someone who can tolerate my ridiculous requests at times, which I really can't foresee what will it be. Haha. Which I have yet to confirm the list of my 6 girls. But no doubt my this two bitches will be my bridesmaid. I know I can trust them, they are perfect!
My Bestfriends for life. Regina and Ivy!!
PS: I kinda peep at my boyfriend resolutions for 2015 and I saw something like "Propose to my girlfriend". (Cross Fingers, Surprise me!) Hehe.